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@David and whoever else cares.
Perhaps your 20 years of sales, marketing, and negotiation techniques backfired when applied so aggressively. You had been posting for barrels of Point Definace 25 or 100s, and bumping your posts every few days for over a month. Clearly nobody has responded - indicating low supply, possibly high demand. I think it's well known that the chips were priced below market value for the Chiproom pre-release - they sold out completely within hours. Then many of the chips were damaged/lost in shipping, so the supply was cut further. I was lucky enough to get some 1s, 5s, and 100s. In any event, I'm sure the going rate for the 100s is more than the $1 that the Chiproom sold the batch for - I'm looking for $25s and fully expect to pay 2x or more for small quantities.
In any event, the correspondence could have gone much differently. After all of your posts, your opening offer to "pay close to what Jim was selling them for" set the mood to me as a price-centric negotiation rather than helping out a fellow chipper - like haggling over nickles at a garage sale. We were talking about a quantity between a barrel and a rack (20-100). From my perspective I'd be breaking up a rack to share some colored chips. How much could I really rake you for? Not enough to be worth my time packing the chips up and waiting in line at the post office. Then you sent 3 PMs in less than an hour questioning my response and demanding a reply. Believe it or not, I was in the middle of doing other things. I came back to the messages and decided that I don't want to deal with you.
"Anchoring" and other advanced negotiations may be applicable when dealing with large expensive sets. Coming in with a low-ball offer after you've been publicly requesting chips for weeks just felt cheesy. Instead of setting the "floor price" it sent the signal that you were trying to take advantage of me (clearly you've done your homework). For example, had you come in at >=$1.25 and not been so pesky with all the messages, I would have felt that the mutual respect was there. Now I don't even want to send you a package based on how you'd probably respond to anything that could come up (mail delays, email responses, dealing with Paypal, etc).
Nate
Perhaps your 20 years of sales, marketing, and negotiation techniques backfired when applied so aggressively. You had been posting for barrels of Point Definace 25 or 100s, and bumping your posts every few days for over a month. Clearly nobody has responded - indicating low supply, possibly high demand. I think it's well known that the chips were priced below market value for the Chiproom pre-release - they sold out completely within hours. Then many of the chips were damaged/lost in shipping, so the supply was cut further. I was lucky enough to get some 1s, 5s, and 100s. In any event, I'm sure the going rate for the 100s is more than the $1 that the Chiproom sold the batch for - I'm looking for $25s and fully expect to pay 2x or more for small quantities.
In any event, the correspondence could have gone much differently. After all of your posts, your opening offer to "pay close to what Jim was selling them for" set the mood to me as a price-centric negotiation rather than helping out a fellow chipper - like haggling over nickles at a garage sale. We were talking about a quantity between a barrel and a rack (20-100). From my perspective I'd be breaking up a rack to share some colored chips. How much could I really rake you for? Not enough to be worth my time packing the chips up and waiting in line at the post office. Then you sent 3 PMs in less than an hour questioning my response and demanding a reply. Believe it or not, I was in the middle of doing other things. I came back to the messages and decided that I don't want to deal with you.
"Anchoring" and other advanced negotiations may be applicable when dealing with large expensive sets. Coming in with a low-ball offer after you've been publicly requesting chips for weeks just felt cheesy. Instead of setting the "floor price" it sent the signal that you were trying to take advantage of me (clearly you've done your homework). For example, had you come in at >=$1.25 and not been so pesky with all the messages, I would have felt that the mutual respect was there. Now I don't even want to send you a package based on how you'd probably respond to anything that could come up (mail delays, email responses, dealing with Paypal, etc).
Nate
@DrStrange I know the feeling and just went through that recently. I have to share my experience.
I had someone PM me asking what I would be willing to pay for a barrel or rack of some chips I have been looking for. The key word in this seems to be "Willing". Being in sales marketing and negotiations being my specialty for the last 20 years I can already see where this conversation is going. The person may or may not have the chips but is looking for their value or is looking to make a nice profit. So I respond with I would not mind paying close to what they originally sold and asked what he was asking for them. I was willing to pay a slight premium for the chips but I just did not want to pay double to triple the price as some of the so called "chip Collectors" try to get (topic for another thread). So he responds with that he really did not want to get rid of them unless I had a "compelling offer". This again implies he was going for a huge profit! So I replied with I do not want to be greedy but would like to purchase only one or two barrels and if he would consider any trades. So after no response after approximately 45 minutes I responded again with "No response". 15 minutes later their response was "no thank you". I then sent a message stating that it would have been easier for them to tell me what he wanted for the chips
instead of playing this game which took an hour. All I can gather is they wanted to sell the chips at a large premium and I did not want to overpay for something. I did make a reasonable offer but never received an answer for 45 minutes and only after I sent the message of "No Answer".
Point one is they PM'd me. So they should tell me what they have for sale and how much they were looking to get. Start high on the price if needed and let's negotiate and settle on a price.
Point two is I truly believe in chip Karma and do not try to make huge profits on this site or the other site. I will trade when it benefits both parties
Point three is if someone sends a pm to you at least be respectful and answer it if you are online. Even if it is a short "let me think about it" or I will get back to you later with and answer" but do not remain silent. IMO this is unacceptable but happens quite frequently on these sites.
Anyway, that is my story. I do not have any ill feelings toward this person or any of the other folks that have done similar things but just wanted to vent and now I feel better. I live a very peaceful life since I live by two rules in life.
Rule Number 1 is "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff." and Rule Number 2.......
"In the grand scheme of things, It's All Small Stuff!"
David
That is the problem with many of the younger generation these days. Many feel like everyone owes them and when you decline their low ball offer they rant and rave. I have run in to this as well. Many do not know how to properly negotiate and end up getting upset and blaming everyone else. Low ball offers are okay and as explained in a previous post sets a floor price. This should open the negotiation by allowing the seller to come back with his price and not upset the potential buyer. @Trihonda I agree with you. I would not sell to someone like that either. I would rather donate it to charity for a tax write off or take a loss from someone who would get get use out of the item.
David
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