I also reached out to Sal’s family, prior to reading this thread, and to summarize, his sister explained that they will be sorting out his business affairs at some point this week. They indicated that the business will cease to exist, but they know that all of his work will be a monument to his memory.
His loss deeply saddens me. He always went above and beyond to tweak artwork received to ensure they printed “just right”. Sal did many projects for me, and had produced all of my MTTD commemorative chips. (Including this years).
I wanted to recognize Sals contribution to the event by naming the Main Event Tourney in his honor. Sal’s Family gave me permission to do so.
I also think it’d be a nice gesture to forward a link to this thread to his family, so they can read the level of impact he has had on so many. Would anyone have an issue with me doing this?
I was also wondering if PCF members could send a group bouqet to the family.
Since flowers are so transitory, perhaps we could find out if there is somewhere to make a charitable donation on his behalf.
I had asked when I spoke to his sister on Friday and they had not made any arrangements.Since flowers are so transitory, perhaps we could find out if there is somewhere to make a charitable donation on his behalf.
Or send some sample display of his works?
I live local and could collect it all and deliver it to them if needed.Or send some sample display of his works?
I live local and could collect it all and deliver it to them if needed.
Agreed. If there is an obituary it should also contain info on donations and so forth.I really don’t know if this is even something that would have meaning. I mean, that as the family clears out all Sal’s stuff, he might just have 1000’s of old samples, chips, plaques, and stuff to clean out. Add another box of samples might be awesome, or it might be a “oh good grief”. I’d suggest we wait until things settle, maybe inquire with the family if they have any examples of Sal’s work, then inquire if they would want any?
Agreed. If there is an obituary it should also contain info on donations and so forth.
I'll figure it out. I set up a gofundme account. Anyone who has done this before feel free to pm me with any additional information you think I need. I will post a new thread shortly.I hate to ask someone else to start collecting funds but I'm on the road for the next two weeks and would find it almost impossible to coordinate anything. I know Sal was instrumental in helping raise his sister as their Mom passed away when they were young(referenced on facebook). His sister Amanda likely would have had to incur all the costs for any memorial or service. I'd start by giving $100. If nobody else can do it I'll start it up in about 2 weeks. I just hate to wait that long.
Hello everyone, my name is Amanda. I am Salvatore's only sister, his mother had adopted my brother (mike) and I at a very young age. I was about two weeks old, and mike was a year and a couple months. When our mom had passed is 1999, Salvatore (Sam) had a tough decision to make, to put mike and I up for adoption or take over the responsibility. Well being the AMAZING man he is he decided to go along with the adoption process. From then on it was just us three, the three amigos. Salvatore (Sam) did an amazing job at raising mike and I, he taught is everything we know.
I'll try to keep this post short and sweet, long story short Sam was very unhealthy, and hadn't been to the doctor in almost three years. He was rushed to the emergency room with complaints of the hip, after running tests, blood works, cat scans, the doctors were still unsure what the problem was. Sam was sent up to ICU to be watched over closer to run more tests and such. Long story short, both his kidneys were failing, and a cut on his leg caused an infection in his blood that kept spreading. Antibiotics weren't working, he was in bad shape. He was sedated for most of the last day since he couldn't breath on his own and had a breathing mask on, since he was not getting a lot of oxygen to the brain, whenever he did try and wake up he would be angry, confused, and in pain. We wanted him to be painless and comfortable. My brother an I decided to call all friends and family near and far to the hospital to say their goodbyes, a total of 30 people came to the hospital that night, and let him know he was loved and that mike and I would be taken care of. Just as soon as everyone was about to leave, my uncle pulled everyone together all 30 of us. Gathered around Sam and said a prayer, as soon as the prayer was over Sam woke up for the first time in almost two days. Dazed and confused, i looked him in the eyes and kept telling him I loved him, he looked me straight in the eyes and said "I love you too" and back out he went. At that time my brother Michael and I had to make the toughest decision of our life, which was to take Sal off of life support. My brother, Toby, Nikki (Sam's cousins) and I all gathered around him as his mask was taken off at 10 pm. We all kissed him, told him we loved him, and that it was okay to go. Sal took his last breath at 10:42 pm February 13th, surrounded by all his loved ones. It was very beautiful, he went on his own time, he was very comfortable and at ease.
I want to thank each and every one of you. I had no idea this form was even a thing until it was brought to my attention. My brother mike and I have read through every single one of your threads and we are so overwhelmed with the love and support. Now as for the business, old west poker supplies the family will not be taking over, but will always be a memorial of what my brother loved to do. I have made a memorial page for my brother on Facebook its under "celebrating the life of Salvatore Apodaca" please feel free to join, add others, share pictures of chips, memories or anything else that you'd like. I know my brother and i would appreciate it greatly. Also there will be no funeral for Salvatore, just a small private memorial with close family and friends. As he was cremated and his ashes will be spread with our loving mother out at the coast.
Thank you everyone, you give me the strength I need to move forward "Don't worry big guy, you taught us everything we know, We got it from here. Rest easy. I love you"
Hello everyone, my name is Amanda. I am Salvatore's only sister, his mother had adopted my brother (mike) and I at a very young age. I was about two weeks old, and mike was a year and a couple months. When our mom had passed is 1999, Salvatore (Sam) had a tough decision to make, to put mike and I up for adoption or take over the responsibility. Well being the AMAZING man he is he decided to go along with the adoption process. From then on it was just us three, the three amigos. Salvatore (Sam) did an amazing job at raising mike and I, he taught is everything we know.
I'll try to keep this post short and sweet, long story short Sam was very unhealthy, and hadn't been to the doctor in almost three years. He was rushed to the emergency room with complaints of the hip, after running tests, blood works, cat scans, the doctors were still unsure what the problem was. Sam was sent up to ICU to be watched over closer to run more tests and such. Long story short, both his kidneys were failing, and a cut on his leg caused an infection in his blood that kept spreading. Antibiotics weren't working, he was in bad shape. He was sedated for most of the last day since he couldn't breath on his own and had a breathing mask on, since he was not getting a lot of oxygen to the brain, whenever he did try and wake up he would be angry, confused, and in pain. We wanted him to be painless and comfortable. My brother an I decided to call all friends and family near and far to the hospital to say their goodbyes, a total of 30 people came to the hospital that night, and let him know he was loved and that mike and I would be taken care of. Just as soon as everyone was about to leave, my uncle pulled everyone together all 30 of us. Gathered around Sam and said a prayer, as soon as the prayer was over Sam woke up for the first time in almost two days. Dazed and confused, i looked him in the eyes and kept telling him I loved him, he looked me straight in the eyes and said "I love you too" and back out he went. At that time my brother Michael and I had to make the toughest decision of our life, which was to take Sal off of life support. My brother, Toby, Nikki (Sam's cousins) and I all gathered around him as his mask was taken off at 10 pm. We all kissed him, told him we loved him, and that it was okay to go. Sal took his last breath at 10:42 pm February 13th, surrounded by all his loved ones. It was very beautiful, he went on his own time, he was very comfortable and at ease.
I want to thank each and every one of you. I had no idea this form was even a thing until it was brought to my attention. My brother mike and I have read through every single one of your threads and we are so overwhelmed with the love and support. Now as for the business, old west poker supplies the family will not be taking over, but will always be a memorial of what my brother loved to do. I have made a memorial page for my brother on Facebook its under "celebrating the life of Salvatore Apodaca" please feel free to join, add others, share pictures of chips, memories or anything else that you'd like. I know my brother and i would appreciate it greatly. Also there will be no funeral for Salvatore, just a small private memorial with close family and friends. As he was cremated and his ashes will be spread with our loving mother out at the coast.
Thank you everyone, you give me the strength I need to move forward "Don't worry big guy, you taught us everything we know, We got it from here. Rest easy. I love you"