Sorry to go dark... BTW when I said "you can't do that" he said, "Yes I can sweetie" Two guys grabbed me! lol I'm serious! Never meet the dude and he called me "sweetie". I will make another post on that topic.
This was sent to both me and the guy the next day from (JLD) that wanted to see my hand.
Robert's rules of poker are available online
here. <---- You can click that link.
Under Section 3 - General Poker Rules: The Showdown
it says
5. Any player who has been dealt in may request to see any hand that was eligible to participate in the showdown, even if the opponent's hand or the winning hand has been mucked. However, this is a privilege that may be revoked if abused. If a player other than the pot winner asks to see a hand that has been folded, that hand is dead. If the winning player asks to see a losing player’s hand, both hands are live, and the best hand wins.
Leonard
In other words, he can ask, but it's really bad form. Another BTW...we ended up being friends to this day.