And my reply to that is: I refuse to go to weddings. Been boycotting for the past 10 years. The reason? The previous four (lavish) weddings I attended all ended in divorce within 18 months, one of them within 6 months. And I didn’t get a refund on the fancy blender/picture frame/linen set/whatevers that I gave each couple. Not doing it anymore.
So, bad analogy, for me at least.
Similarly, I just don’t feel the need at all for chip denominations in a private game—and I avoid playing in a private game with anyone who needs to be reminded constantly of them, at least after the first couple orbits. Especially in my own house.
This seem a bit like a child being taught to put on their own shoes, then needing permanent labels on the toes for Left and Right for the rest of their life. Or keeping training wheels on your bike into adulthood.
But actually I’d like to play with such people... because I can’t imagine that if they are looking at a five-card board and facing a big bet from me, that they will remember what order the cards came out in, or how I behaved in a similar situation just a few hands ago, or calculating how big my bet is in relation to the pot and to their remaining stack, or any of the countless other (far more complex) things one needs to remember at a poker table besides chip colors. Instead, they’ll be thinking “Is this a $25 chip or a $5 chip? HMMMM.”
As for casinos: Since absolutely anyone can sit down to play, and there are legalities they have to address, it is understood why they have denoms. An invitation-only game for people who have been playing for years together? Not so much.