I swear that every time recently I get pocket kings an ace hits the board, partly what drove my decision not to overload on pre-flop bet.
This perfectly illustrates how we handle certain hands, and how sometimes it pushes us to adopt unconventional strategies. I used to struggle with this until I realized that an ace on the board could actually work in my favor by representing my holdings. We often psych ourselves out, hesitating when an unwanted card appears. Instead, we can leverage that card to intimidate our opponent.
Here's something my friend, who I'd consider a semi-pro with $186,000 in live earnings, shared with me. It was so good that I read it multiple times. It really drives home the point about fear. Fear is a bitch in this game; it can make us act irrationally or, worse, paralyze us from making the right moves. Enjoy the read...
Adding poker lives
Yes we don’t have to overthink the coolers. You’ll be in the other end equal number of times in the long run and in short run playing only x tourneys per year, it helps to not have things ever even out and just accept the gifts.
Here’s a simple truth about live poker. Most (>80%) have a strategy of playing only good cards and playing pretty straightforward. They are there to “get their moneys worth” and because they have had some success in the past with getting paid off, they don’t feel a need to change. When you think about it, this strategy relies heavily on coolering people so their actual gameplan is to flop sets and have big hands collide on the right side, pure coolers. When you think of a poker strategy as relying on coolers, you will occasionally run very deep too so it reinforces that it is “right” to do this.
So why does it mostly fail? Because there aren’t enough coolers and when there are, you will be on the wrong end of them sometimes too.
What is an actual strategy better than 80% of North American live MTT poker players?
You fight and analyze the tough pots. You win the pots nobody wants. You resteal. You come to each hand as the street fight that it is. Pretty soon you become annoying and players begin to whisper about you because you aren’t playing the 80% way. You aren’t conforming to the standard. They want to validate that you are wrong so they take pleasure in you losing pots even though you are more than winning enough to cover those spots.
You see that you are actually building a stack 5BB at a time (which is massive) and all those 5BB pots add up to tournament “extra lives”.
The extra lives are used for both coolers, flips, and semi bluffs gone wrong. Sometimes you’ll win those pots and skyrocket. Others you’ll lose and be knocked down down but because you cleverly built 1-2-3-4-5 extra lives, you get to keep playing whereas a typical 80% strategy player will be broke or on crumbs.
If you take the approach of learning how to build stacks methodically 5BB at a time and how win in the streets in all the pots nobody wants where big hands aren’t colliding, exploiting their strategy, taking advantage of scare cards and their fear of looking dumb, you’ll build a mountain of extra lives. You still won’t win or cash as much as you want to, but you’ll have a far better variance surviving strategy than the field. When they criticize you, you’re doing fantastic. You lose the fear of looking dumb. Let them think what they want. This works and works quite well. Not a single successful player actually plays “wait for coolers poker”.