Hoping I can shed a little perspective for everyone.
Yesterday was the 6 year anniversary of my son being diagnosed with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. He was diagnosed at 5, he is now 11 and over the last several months has lost his ability to walk. He just went back to school for the first time last week since March 13th, 2020. Instead of walking the halls like last year he now has to use a scooter to drive around. The estimated life span for kids with DMD is roughly their early 20s. Every day my wife and I have to help him with the basic tasks of getting dressed, moving from the table to the couch, showering, and using the bathroom. You would think that he would hate the world.... but he doesn't.... he loves life and he loves people.
For the last 195 weeks he has been part of a medical trial at Lurie Children's Hospital for a treatment called Exon Skipping. We live just outside Ann Arbor Michigan so for 83 straight weeks my wife and I alternated driving to Chicago for treatments. Luckily they approved home treatments starting in week 84 so we only have to travel once a month now. At 7 years old he was brave enough to give up his body to science and an experimental drug to try and help future generations not have to go through what he is. He went through two muscle biopsy surgeries and has been poked and prodded more than I can count.
One of the first people we met after getting diagnosed was another local family and the dad gave me a really important piece of advise. He said "you are going to meet a lot of people along this journey who are in the same boat as you, but not all of them will be good for you. You don't have to be their friend just because they are dealing with the same battle that you are. You will know who the good ones are right away when you meet them."
So here's my long winded relation to all of us here. Why are we here? Because we like poker and poker chips, it's a hobby. It's not life and death. It's the same advice that other dad gave me, probably 95% of the members here are good people that you will get along with, possibly meet up to play some cards, and maybe work a few deals to buy/sell/trade chips. Are there some bad apples, sure there are, they are everywhere in life. We are all from different backgrounds, different beliefs, different countries, different religions, etc. So if you run into someone that isn't good for you, it's simple, move along and stick to the people that make you happy.
We all have much bigger fish to fry in life. Family, kids, spouses, mortgages, sickness, jobs, and all of the other real world problems. A poker chip forum should be the least of our worries.
If you stuck with me this long, thank you, I hope that my words had a positive impact on you. If you stopped after the first sentence, that's ok also.
Wishing everyone peace and happiness. God knows we all need as much of it as we can get.
Ryan