I was pretty new to the site when the SHTF and have never said much because I didn't have the personal investment so many other people had, but I did appreciate CT enough when I first found it to pay for a supporter level right before everything started going down hill, so I've got a little skin in the game. Unlike you
@bergs I've been a member of many different forums for a long time and while I wouldn't say that contributing to a site monetarily to get extra features is unheard of, it definitely isn't the norm (even today in the age of the "pay for more features/lives/credits" business model.). When I payed for the lowest supporter level it didn't have much to do with what I would receive in return but more just to say thanks for what I had received so far; an invite to Round Up on the Ridge (thanks again for having me in your house as a complete stranger
@Redbelly !), access to vendors I never knew existed, and most importantly the knowledge and history that the site (thanks in part to the members) contained.
All that being said, when the site started having it's problems, that persisted for a lot longer than they should have imho, I got screwed on a few sales out of the classifieds by not being able to jump on a couple of things I wanted and I also had heard nothing about the "swag" I had been expecting after following the directions on how to redeem it. I was definitely a little annoyed that for only the second time in my internet life I had shelled out money to support a forum, only to have it unusable two or three weeks later. When the exodus started happening and I received a few pm's and emails from members telling me about PCF I was a little conflicted; on one hand I was happy there was a working site with familiar faces, on the other it felt personal to me from the beginning from a few people and I don't like to pile on when someone is down, like Greg seemed to be, and even as new as I was I recognized imediately the amount of knowledge and content that the people who were leaving represented. I new it wasn't good for CT to say the least and I wondered if it was justified. The very next thought however was the realization of how pissed I was that I missed out on some china clays at a good price while paying $25 and how much it must sting the long time members who have hundreds of hours and dollars invested in the site. The slap they felt must have been a whole lot stronger than the one I felt, I couldn't judge anybody's anger because it was at the very least partially justified.
I felt conflicted then and I still feel that way about the whole situation, I can't ignore the fact that from what I understand Ten had some crazy things going on in his life and then lost his father pretty suddenly. That does not excuse charging (overcharging some think) for a product and not delivering, but I can't get past that. In the month before CT had it's problems my wife and I lost 6 people (three generations) who we loved to a mudslide in Oso, a few months after that I lost my father pretty suddenly, another couple months later and it's another funeral for a friend of ours who battled cancer all her life and then died shortly after her 30th birthday. I may be being a pussy about it, but if losing his father or the situation with his kids(I feel weird speaking on another persons business but these things have all been public for a long time, if I'm out of line let me know) had even the slightest bit to do with the lack of contact from Ten as the site stated free falling then I can't hold a grudge about it. I don't think anybody did anything wrong by deciding to frequent a site that was/is a better experience (and it is, thanks for such a great site
@Tommy and staff, I can't imagine it's cheap or easy), but I have always wished the animosity displayed by some wouldn't be so harsh. Ten is/has suffered enough, the decline in traffic and the natural progression to a better product is the fitting "punishment" for the crime.
I personally wish Ten all the best, same with everybody involved, and even if I have conflicted opinions there are a few things I am sure of in my mind:
- BGs PCF avatar is/was a blatant FU to CT and Ten, and to pretend it was primarily anything else is disingenuous.
- Tens banning of BG had nothing to do with BGs comments towards his mom, it was all about the avatar, and to pretend it was anything else is disingenuous.
- I wish no ill will towards CT or PCF, they are both great forums and it's sad (to me) they both can't be strong, but;
- While I do, and will in the future, read and post on both forums, PCF is where the lions share of the activity and knowledge is right now and I can't see that changing unless the feelings of some of the membership change and go back to posting on CT.
I support the right of BG to use any avatar he chooses, 100% agree with freedom of speech, but I also support the right of someone to get tired of getting the proverbial middle finger in his "house" every time he reads a post from BG. I don't think it will ultimately be a good thing to ban BG (the knowledge/contributions is/are undeniable, impressive is an understatement), but we all could see it coming a mile away, right? May not be the best course of action for now or the future, but BG was delivering a message with every post he made and Ten couldn't look past it forever.
I do love poker chips though.