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Some comments come off as a bit mean/harsh.
Should he have planned better? Prob, do we know the full story, prob not… How do we know he isn’t trying to do Uber or something else and just an additional option?
Saw a guy going for a bank roll on here get less scrutiny… lol
If u wanna contribute send some, otherwise just ignore or send ur wishes lol.
I don’t like beating someone when they’re down… but what ever helps yall sleep at night I guess…
Btw congratulations!
Should he have planned better? Prob, do we know the full story, prob not… How do we know he isn’t trying to do Uber or something else and just an additional option?
Saw a guy going for a bank roll on here get less scrutiny… lol
If u wanna contribute send some, otherwise just ignore or send ur wishes lol.
I don’t like beating someone when they’re down… but what ever helps yall sleep at night I guess…
Btw congratulations!
Today's stamp is the word "loyalty" across your right eyebrow..
I agree. It has changed right with society.
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so I guess you feel the need to judge the others for judging - lol. I think I get it now.
merkong
Full House
So you’re judging me for judging others for judging others?
Your turn. Let’s keep it going forever.
Nah, I left my moral high horse in the barn today.
merkong
Full House
Just call it like I see it
For what it’s worth, here’s my 2 cents.
First, congratulations on the newest member of your family! It’s an exciting and nervous time for sure!
In my book, family is the most important thing to me. I’ll do anything I can to help out a family member in need. This also extends to close friends.
Everyone reacts differently in times of need. Some ask for help, others don’t. I appreciate you feeling the need to provide for your family. Having a baby does come with some notice to tighten the belt and get things ready such as diapers, formula, cloths etc. Hell, that’s what baby showers are for. Free diapers!
I’m not sure this is the best place to ask for donations for this cause. Most people would agree poker chips aren’t a necessity. Especially when there’s family obligation that have to be met. It’s more of a hobby. Something you throw extra money at.
I wish you and your family the best in all things! There are programs you can reach out to if you need food, formula, clothing, help with utilities etc. I hope you find the things you need!
First, congratulations on the newest member of your family! It’s an exciting and nervous time for sure!
In my book, family is the most important thing to me. I’ll do anything I can to help out a family member in need. This also extends to close friends.
Everyone reacts differently in times of need. Some ask for help, others don’t. I appreciate you feeling the need to provide for your family. Having a baby does come with some notice to tighten the belt and get things ready such as diapers, formula, cloths etc. Hell, that’s what baby showers are for. Free diapers!
I’m not sure this is the best place to ask for donations for this cause. Most people would agree poker chips aren’t a necessity. Especially when there’s family obligation that have to be met. It’s more of a hobby. Something you throw extra money at.
I wish you and your family the best in all things! There are programs you can reach out to if you need food, formula, clothing, help with utilities etc. I hope you find the things you need!
This is one of the most disappointing threads I’ve ever seen on PCF.
Shame on you for acting this way towards someone in need, this is not the way you treat someone that is part of your community (you throw that word around a lot don’t you?)
Seriously, shameful stuff. You can do so much better.
If you would handle things differently, great, good for you. If you want to help this family, great, it sounds like it would be much appreciated.
I will make my donation and hope others will too, I’m sorry you’re having a hard time right now and I wish you guys all the best.
Shame on you for acting this way towards someone in need, this is not the way you treat someone that is part of your community (you throw that word around a lot don’t you?)
Seriously, shameful stuff. You can do so much better.
If you would handle things differently, great, good for you. If you want to help this family, great, it sounds like it would be much appreciated.
I will make my donation and hope others will too, I’m sorry you’re having a hard time right now and I wish you guys all the best.
merkong
Full House
Then I guess judging when a person feels it justified is ok.
See we’re both in the clear.
You could have just donated quietly and ignored what all of us “hateful,” working types voiced. Virtue signaling always works better when shouted, I suppose.
Your flag waves tall and proud. I definitely agree this is a shameful thread. Make sure you post how much you gave so the adoration can floweth.
Also, I’ll send you my PP so you can help me out as well since you’re in such a giving mood.
Also, I’ll send you my PP so you can help me out as well since you’re in such a giving mood.
I throw that word around. But I guess it means different things to different people. I’m not even 100% sure what it means to me. But what I do know is that when I lost a work contract and I ran out of money, I sold all my chips. I sold some incredible stuff that’s worth 3x as much now, not that they can be reacquired. Then I logged off and ignored this place for a year because it was a luxury I couldnt afford.
Anyway, that’s how I handled things in regard to this community.
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Hey, I understand how it all looks, I get it.
If I had access to legal work and my green card was here, I'd be buying chips instead of asking for help... hehe so I get it. Unfortunately, it's been 2 years since filing i485 and 8+ months waiting for work authorization... I should just drive down and walk back over and Biden will take care of me (sad but true)...The wife herself is self employed consultant and her work slowed down a lot during pregnancy and we had to burn through savings. It's actually a massive challenge as a husband, and a father with no family in Texas.
PCF has many wonderful people who have helped me a long the way in many ways, so I thought I'd ask... No pressure or expectations.
Peace and love y'all.
If I had access to legal work and my green card was here, I'd be buying chips instead of asking for help... hehe so I get it. Unfortunately, it's been 2 years since filing i485 and 8+ months waiting for work authorization... I should just drive down and walk back over and Biden will take care of me (sad but true)...The wife herself is self employed consultant and her work slowed down a lot during pregnancy and we had to burn through savings. It's actually a massive challenge as a husband, and a father with no family in Texas.
PCF has many wonderful people who have helped me a long the way in many ways, so I thought I'd ask... No pressure or expectations.
Peace and love y'all.
OK… and? I mean good for you, that sounds smart.
I still don’t understand why that means you or anyone else has to come down on a community members‘ post asking for help. So many assumptions that he hasn’t done or tried to do the things that people are suggesting.
Many years ago someone taught me that if a person is brave enough to ask someone else for help, you should be brave enough to respond to that call.
If you don’t want to help, don’t. Simple. But stop with the stories of what you did and what you would have done. You don’t know this persons life. Everyone goes through it in a different way.
I need some money. Want me to PM you my PP addy?
OP
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P.S. Thank you everyone for the words of encouragement, advice and support. Don't mind me, I'm just a Husband & Father trying every option right now because we're in a bit of a panic. Speaking of trying everything, I'm liquidating anything and everything I can (poker items are included), so look out for some more listings [@jpietrella & @l33tf0b - good point and important note].
My deepest gratitude to the ones who sought more understanding and provided compassion and support.
Thank you @NotRealNameNoSir @chippitydoodah @LeLe @SixSpeedFury @ekricket @merkong @iLogik @Timmah and @Senzrock
SixSpeedFury
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Hopefully all goes well brother.
For some people, begging for handouts comes natural.
Move on. Stop with these embarrassing comments.
It's very rare that I make comments on topics like this-
From the mist you see afar
A golden heart a troubled star
You fear your compassion
Somber feet edges your humilty's deep
A trifle slice pairs our human device
Common ground shelters the sound
And yet that stone so sharp it be
Gathers speed for those that seek
Yet my heart fears a world
Where the dust begins to swirl
Hope your harvest comes anew
That you feel the warmth hue
Be more
All my Best Jeff
From the mist you see afar
A golden heart a troubled star
You fear your compassion
Somber feet edges your humilty's deep
A trifle slice pairs our human device
Common ground shelters the sound
And yet that stone so sharp it be
Gathers speed for those that seek
Yet my heart fears a world
Where the dust begins to swirl
Hope your harvest comes anew
That you feel the warmth hue
Be more
All my Best Jeff
louBdub
4 of a Kind
Hi there, I’m here to help.
What’s your zip code? Do you have a resume? How old are you?
Gimme that, and let me cook…..
What’s your zip code? Do you have a resume? How old are you?
Gimme that, and let me cook…..
Wishing you and your family well, and I hope you do find the light at the end of the tunnel. Not having family around definitely makes this tough on you, I know. (Been there myself once).
and well said @Senzrock . When we hit rock bottom, we often try all avenues; whether they are sound or not. I appreciate your effort. I wish I was in a position to help out, financially or from an employment perspective, but unfortunately am not at this time.
If you ever need an unbiased ear or someone to vent to though, feel free to reach out at any time. Sometimes another ear makes a world of difference.
Mark
and well said @Senzrock . When we hit rock bottom, we often try all avenues; whether they are sound or not. I appreciate your effort. I wish I was in a position to help out, financially or from an employment perspective, but unfortunately am not at this time.
If you ever need an unbiased ear or someone to vent to though, feel free to reach out at any time. Sometimes another ear makes a world of difference.
Mark
You’re right, it’s the internet- we should just assume it’s fully legit without question.
People disagree, learn to deal with it vs trying to silence dissenting opinions and voices.
You have your voice, I have mine. I’ll move on when I feel like it, not b/c you said too.
BTW - my problem is not with the OP. To be clear, I don’t agree with his approach- at all. My issue is with the BS self righteousness trying to shame others for what is 100% a legitimate reaction.
FFS
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First congratulations, you have a beautiful family.
I have cognitive dissidence on this thread, I can see how it appears to be begging, and personally I think the community should hamper it. I think there is a lot of bullshit in society and I'll not make it political, but life is hard, pity is killing us - simply put 'The needs of the many out weight the needs of the few'
For those that would be outspoken that this is begging, I would ask that with the newly given information you reconsider your position, let me explain.
I would not ask you to donate, but I would ask that you refrain from discouraging VMR from seeking help.
I would wager that none of you have ever had to deal with the U.S. gov in the same way that VMR and his family have.
Most organizations if they do afford sponsorship, they treat employees like shit, and only sponsor them for as long as they work for them.
The smallest things like traffic infractions can cause you to be denied approval for citizenship, and the burden can be heavy, waiting for years can also add to that.
I don't want to get too personal or ask VMR, but typically if you're getting a green card by marriage, the gov asked stupid shit of you and invades your privacy to degrees that most of us born in the US would say 'go fukc you're self' to. They expect you to have photos of family events with extended family and share them with the gov, they interrogate you separately from your spouse and give you third degree constantly. I understand the due diligence here but again most Americans would be pissed about the way they invade your personal life.
Proud of our ancestors, proud to be an American, proud to be a member of this community, and grateful to be lucky enough to win a birth right of citizenship.
This is the thread to post:
I have cognitive dissidence on this thread, I can see how it appears to be begging, and personally I think the community should hamper it. I think there is a lot of bullshit in society and I'll not make it political, but life is hard, pity is killing us - simply put 'The needs of the many out weight the needs of the few'
For those that would be outspoken that this is begging, I would ask that with the newly given information you reconsider your position, let me explain.
I would not ask you to donate, but I would ask that you refrain from discouraging VMR from seeking help.
I would wager that none of you have ever had to deal with the U.S. gov in the same way that VMR and his family have.
If you don't know when you come into the country the correct way, you're not allowed to work for at least a year, then you have to request that your ability to work is updated every few years, and normally that takes a few months up to 3 normally. With the current administration it has been pushed out even further. If you're caught working you may be deported, but even if not you'll likely never be given citizenship.
Most organizations if they do afford sponsorship, they treat employees like shit, and only sponsor them for as long as they work for them.
The smallest things like traffic infractions can cause you to be denied approval for citizenship, and the burden can be heavy, waiting for years can also add to that.
I don't want to get too personal or ask VMR, but typically if you're getting a green card by marriage, the gov asked stupid shit of you and invades your privacy to degrees that most of us born in the US would say 'go fukc you're self' to. They expect you to have photos of family events with extended family and share them with the gov, they interrogate you separately from your spouse and give you third degree constantly. I understand the due diligence here but again most Americans would be pissed about the way they invade your personal life.
This should belay any concerns of the op having a double standard.
Proud of our ancestors, proud to be an American, proud to be a member of this community, and grateful to be lucky enough to win a birth right of citizenship.
This is the thread to post:
ekricket
Royal Flush
So? For some people running 4 minute miles come naturally. For some people red hair and curly hair come naturally. For some people intolerance and feeling superior comes naturally.
What’s your point?
johnjohn
Full House
congrats on the new addition to the family.
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