That never came out of my mouth. But in the situation I referenced, what am I to do. Where do I turn?
Some sellers are going to be easier to deal with than others. And to @ekricket point, if they haven’t actually listed things for sale, you should try not to think of them as sellers - they’re probably hobbiests who have better things to do. Sometimes they’ll interact with you like that Facebook guy, and sometimes they’ll be like me and just simply ask for what they paid.This is part of my point. I messaged a seller in a FB group last night. He sent me to his list of available chips (singles) and told me to send him back a list of the ones I wanted with a 1 time offer. He stated he would only accept or reject 1 time and that's it. My problem is, I go online, say to eBay (only other place than here I know to look) and the chips I wanted each have sold for 0.99 up to 10.00 or so. Other listing have each chip at 20 -75 and have been listed over and over. I don't know what to offer him. So I send an offer of 4-5 per chip. Then I basically get told I'm trying to lowball him and now I'm out a chance to buy any of them.
But in all semi-seriousness, what @Josh Kifer said and what @Rieguy said.So, smallish rant here from a complete newb. Browsing the classifieds I come across a wanted ad where 2 member are virtually going at each other because the OP did not list in the ad exactly what he wanted and what price he was willing to pay. This now poses a question for the chipping Gods here on PCF.
If there are parts to my set that I need to find. Say fracs for example (seems like a lot of people looking for these). What do I post if I don't know what it is that I want. I don't know the difference between THC, RHC, SCV, WHTC. I have no idea where pricing comes from on chips. Some 1s and 5s sell for 1-2 each where others sell for 20+. What do us new guys do? And why snap at eachother because someone asked a question out of ignorance. It may be a dumb question, but if I don't know, I don't know.
So far I have had GREAT experiences on PCF, and can see the family/brotherhood aspect where most everyone looks out for and helps out others Let's keep it that way. Now, with that being said help me understand and learn. Please.
Rant over
Yes. Come to me for the prices on chips I’m offering to sell.
I had to unblock and unignore some people just to follow this tasty thread
Yes. Come to me for the prices on chips I’m offering to sell.
You could have said “I paid $140 for this rack.” But you came across as impatient and annoyed and as somebody who was looking to profit. Which is fine. You do you. But I just can’t imagine why you’re surprised or offended or why you even care about the reactions you get.
checking previous post history to see if I'll be missing out on anything of substance by using the ignore button for the first time.........
nope! looks like we're good to go
Well, thanks for joining the party.I had to unblock and unignore some people just to follow this tasty thread
There obviously is not a short cut. Not that I can find anyway. True statement about having nearly the world of knowledge at our fingertips. You know if you read it on the internet, it has to be 100% true.There’s no short cut, you need to read/learn along the way to get a better understanding of the hobby.
We are living in such a fast pace environment nowadays that most people just getting too used to finding information within seconds
I didn’t mean to call you a flipper. I’m just saying that the only reason not to speak first in a negotiation is to maximize your profit (or minimize your loss.) And like I said, fine, sell how you want.You are going to have to show me were I came off as a flipper. I reminded him it was HIS ad and asked what HIS offer was in HIS WANTED AD.
Ayo, you're the one talking like you're offering a helping hand by finding some chips in your closet and selling them to a new player. I didn't say I was virtuous, I said there's more ways to help someone other than selling them racks you don't use.Yay for you. Nobody is more virtuous on this site than you. At least that’s what you tell us constantly.
I didn’t mean to call you a flipper. I’m just saying that the only reason not to speak first in a negotiation is to maximize your profit (or minimize your loss.) And like I said, fine, sell how you want.
Ayo, you're the one talking like you're offering a helping hand by finding some chips in your closet and selling them to a new player.
didn’t mean to call you a flipper. I’m just saying that the only reason not to speak first in a negotiation is to maximize your profit (or minimize your loss.) And like I said, fine, sell how you want.
I’m still trying to understand this.
So by your logic, the person who responds to the wanted ad should put themselves at a disadvantage first? They aren’t actively selling anything, why would they put themselves at a disadvantage for no reason? Is this how you sell chips?
I don’t see this as anything but for what it is - a made up reason to bash me for some tone - that didn’t exist - that you read into a post.
But since you demanded he name a price and refused to be low-balled, it didn’t seem like favors were forthcoming.
Hey. I have nothing against you. I wasn’t the first or only guy who thought your tone was way off. That’s it. People tell me when they think I’m out of line - that’s what happens.This is totally made up in your mind. I didn’t demand anything. I asked his offer to see if we were on the same page. You are the one who read something into it that didn’t exist.
That’s why we are discussing this. Because your behavior and assumption spiraled all of this into what it is. And you know what it isn’t? It isn’t helping the OP at all.
But that’s not important to you here evidently. Just bashing me and justifying it with your assumptions is what the important thing is here.
Hey. I have nothing against you. I wasn’t the first or only guy who thought your tone was way off. That’s it. People tell me when they think I’m out of line - that’s what happens.
You people have never met me. Yet you think it’s ok for you and others to read stuff into my posts that doesn’t exist. You can ask me if you think I’m out of line, you don’t have to go full nuclear and start making assumptions and posting on them with no info.
People tell you when you’re out of line- do you think you could extend that courtesy to others? And not by calling someone opportunistic and a flipper because they ask for a starting spot in negotiations - no matter what tone you or others imagine.
Every one of those posts by you and others was either an insult or derogatory or demeaning the chips I was offering. You think that’s constructive? You think that’s what newbs want to see in their wanted ads?
I know you will have a lot of “buts” and “well, what abouts” but that doesn’t excuse you or the others actions here.
Just start an Ekricket bash thread and don’t clutter up others who are actual trying to build sets or those that are trying to help them.
Derailing? No way! Such wow!Honestly, me and the guy that wanted the nickels were on the path to getting a deal done. He made an offer, I would have counter offered, and in the end we both would have been happy with some kind of agreement. Negotiation I believe the word is called.
But thanks to @BNads86, @upNdown, and a couple others this deal has been derailed and the original poster looking for the nickels is SOL. If you guys call that helping a newbie then I’d hate to see what you call screwing one out of a potential deal. Because that’s what your little derail and rants caused.
Man, Im sorry it went this way, this isnt a big deal. The only massive hate I've experienced here got banned lol, this was just about an awkward interaction. I'm sorry for my part in it. Youre a valued member but your sarcasm gets momentum really quickly, the chips are nice and fit the bill.If I was driving when I read all those posts I’d do exactly that.
But seriously, just start an Ekricket bash thread and take off on it. I don’t mind really, I don’t know you people or anything about you, except massive amounts of hate that you need to express anytime I post. I’d welcome it, get all that bad thoughts and imagined misdeeds out of your mind. It’s healthier than just secretly hating. But if you feel better posting memes do that too.