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Please help us settle a bit of a dispute ...
A little over a year ago, some buddies and I started playing a 'friendly' weekly no-limit cash Texas hold 'em game. 'Friendly' meaning it's a $20 buy in, and our BB is $0.20. Most of us (myself included), had hardly ever played poker before – but we've all grown to love the game.
The guy with the most experience established a rule from the beginning that you could not rebuy (which I understand is also called "top up"?) until your stack was down to less than $5.
Now, several times, a situation has developed where one player, maybe two, has gotten lucky and ended up with a stack of $120 or more – while everyone else has $10 or less. I have complained about this, because I feel that it throws off the balance in the betting, because this stack leader can basically push everyone else out any time he feels like it.
I told a friend with more experience about this, and he said we're doing it wrong – that you should be allowed to top up whenever you want (between hands of course) ideally up to whatever the stack leader has, OR at least to whatever the buy in is ($20 in our case.) And that we're mixing up cash & tournament rules. He also said the game is generally best when everyone has at least 100 BBs in their stack.
I proposed this, and many are griping, saying it's not fair to those who can't afford to top up that much; and that it eliminates the leader's advantage which he earned through skilluck.
I'd love to hear how groups with more experience do this – what's the best rules re top ups for friendlies?
Thanks in advance for any light you can shed!
A little over a year ago, some buddies and I started playing a 'friendly' weekly no-limit cash Texas hold 'em game. 'Friendly' meaning it's a $20 buy in, and our BB is $0.20. Most of us (myself included), had hardly ever played poker before – but we've all grown to love the game.
The guy with the most experience established a rule from the beginning that you could not rebuy (which I understand is also called "top up"?) until your stack was down to less than $5.
Now, several times, a situation has developed where one player, maybe two, has gotten lucky and ended up with a stack of $120 or more – while everyone else has $10 or less. I have complained about this, because I feel that it throws off the balance in the betting, because this stack leader can basically push everyone else out any time he feels like it.
I told a friend with more experience about this, and he said we're doing it wrong – that you should be allowed to top up whenever you want (between hands of course) ideally up to whatever the stack leader has, OR at least to whatever the buy in is ($20 in our case.) And that we're mixing up cash & tournament rules. He also said the game is generally best when everyone has at least 100 BBs in their stack.
I proposed this, and many are griping, saying it's not fair to those who can't afford to top up that much; and that it eliminates the leader's advantage which he earned through skilluck.
I'd love to hear how groups with more experience do this – what's the best rules re top ups for friendlies?
Thanks in advance for any light you can shed!