Another good reason why raffles should be gone. If he realizes that the raffle you ran was illegal in your state you open yourself up to legal action if you try to go after him in small claims court.
I hope you are able to get your money.
I've fallen for the "I get paid on Friday" story before (not on PCF, just generally). Never again.
There is a way to go about outing a member when a transaction goes south. The original post was not the proper way to get to a resolution. The OP went from zero to flaming rage in 3.27 seconds.
You blew up his text over a weekend. He may have been out of town or was having a bad weekend. That shit looked kinda crazy to me but whatever. He didn't get back to you and that sucks.
At that point bring it up in a simple 'warning' post on the forum explaining the situation and the people involved. I wouldn't even use real names at this point. The point is to get their attention and let them know that their reputation is at stake. This is more important to most people than the relatively small amount of money involved and is generally more than enough to open the lines of communication.
You went full pitchforks and torches way prematurely and then seemed pissed off that everyone didn't have your back.
There are 2 types of people that owe you money. 1 guy will literally never pay you back and the 2nd type is just a flaky dude that doesn't really have his shit together.
In the interest of time it is helpful to figure out what type of person you are dealing with asap. The flaky type of person can often be encouraged to pay you back if handled correctly. IME the best approach is to offer some type of payment plant over weeks/months. For example, pay 20 dollars per week until the debt is repaid.
If you, as the lender, keep things cordial and the debtor refuses (or continually defaults on) a charitable payment plan then you know the money is gone for good.
Don't agree
Sometimes a sale (of specific chips) comes at bad timing or you just maxed out the CC / PP on other expenses.
You just need some time to get the money in place (by selling other chips, clearing CC/PP, ...)
Buyer or seller...i'm always open for a friendly question asked to/by members in good standing.
I'm not living from paycheck to paycheck...but sometimes it's hard to come up with 1 or 2K on the spot, since I would never want my family budget or savings be used to buy chips (no matter how awsome the chips are).
When I needed it...I never got 'no' for answer (but always made good like agreed) and it always created a special relation with seller.
For sure I'm looking out for members that did me a solid one
Don't agree
Sometimes a sale (of specific chips) comes at bad timing or you just maxed out the CC / PP on other expenses.
You just need some time to get the money in place (by selling other chips, clearing CC/PP, ...)
Buyer or seller...i'm always open for a friendly question asked to/by members in good standing.
I'm not living from paycheck to paycheck...but sometimes it's hard to come up with 1 or 2K on the spot, since I would never want my family budget or savings be used to buy chips (no matter how awsome the chips are).
When I needed it...I never got 'no' for answer (but always made good like agreed) and it always created a special relation with seller.
For sure I'm looking out for members that did me a solid one
I lol'd at this....This makes no sense to me. Someone other than Davin is going to harm Mike because of a debt they are not even involved with?
This is Canada not America
I lol'd at this....
" Don't make me go to his house and have to apologize..'
I gave him a lot of time since he owed me the money, he has logged on PCF 3x since that date but yet to reply to me or my text or my phone calls so who's wrong here ?
I gave him a lot of time since he owed me the money, he has logged on PCF 3x since that date but yet to reply to me or my text or my phone calls so who's wrong here ?
You have to man up if you fed up!Sure, there are some people who borrow and pay right back. They are upfront about their situation and ability to pay, and they stay in contact.
Then there's this. "I'll pay you on July 27 when my check comes in." July 27 arrives, and the guy vanishes. Even if you can't pay someone back on the intended day, you say something. You let him know what happened and when you can pay, and you see if you can come to an agreement about how to settle it. You don't ghost the guy.
The fact that he did this is very revealing. We can see in this series of messages that he was already spinning ways to delay payment or excuses for why he couldn't make it happen from the jump, before July 27.
From the look of it, he went into it as a sort of freeroll. If he wins, he comes up with the $200 and gets the chips. (And would anyone be surprised if he sells the chips immediately because he needs the cash? I wouldn't.) If he loses, he tries to wiggle his way out of it or just disappears.
i have a situation where I fear for the worst. I paid someone 400 usd to harvest for me. He says chips shipped 4 weeks ago but wont provide tracking or any pics of the chips.
Not a PCF member AFAIK.
Totally agree with this....just seemed sleezy. I think since we are cleaning up the classifieds we might as well figure out away to stop people from cancelling ads just to start a new one to make it appear that it's a fresh listing of the same overpriced/overvalued chips. Mike mac wasn't the only one to do this. I dont have a good solution but thought I'd put it out thereI personally made the decision never to deal with Mike Mac after seeing multiple threads of his opened, changed and closed in the classifieds. I didn't like or trust the way he was using the lure of spotted birds to see how big of a prize he could catch...
Another good reason why raffles should be gone. If he realizes that the raffle you ran was illegal in your state you open yourself up to legal action if you try to go after him in small claims court.
I hope you are able to get your money.
this is why all payments should be collected before running a raffle, or shipping chips out.
I lol'd at this....
" Don't make me go to his house and have to apologize..'
Besides the legal eagle stuff....raffles became (in some/most recent cases) a milking cow to sell coveted boat chips for unseen prices.
This is bad for the community since it prices up chips that could have been sold without the 400 - 1000% increase.