Crazy situation in my home game - how do you rule? (4 Viewers)

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Well the player shouldn't be penalized, because he asked permission from the tournament director ahead of time. It's just a bad rule that should be revisited before the next tourney.


The TDA states:

63: Exposing Cards and Proper Folding

A player who exposes his cards with action pending may incur a penalty, but will not have a dead hand. The penalty will begin at the end of the hand.

So even they aren't immune to completely preventing this action to get a reaction. I mean, think about being in a major tournament with a MAJOR all-in decision DEEP in the event when prize jumps are substantial.

You don't think a player would risk the penalty if they felt it gave them the edge in making a crucial decision for a huge pot? Neither the TDA or the WSOP kills the hand according to their ruleset.
 
I never said that the hand should be killed. I was responding to zombie saying the guy should be penalized but apparently I was too slow.
 
You don't think a player would risk the penalty if they felt it gave them the edge in making a crucial decision for a huge pot? Neither the TDA or the WSOP kills the hand according to their ruleset.

I don't.

TDA 66: Warnings, Penalties, & Disqualification
Penalty options include: verbal warnings, one or more “missed hands”, one or more “missed rounds”, and disqualification.

I would be fairly shocked if a player in a TDA ruled Tourn , knowingly violated the rule and risked a penalty, to gain an edge to win any pot.
Violations are not tolerated, and such a brazen "in your face" disregard of the tournament rules no doubt could result in a severe penalty, including disqualification.
Aside from that, in a home game, I would be more inclined to , as a "penalty" rule a hand dead whenever possible or feasable, instead of having home game players sit out rounds or get disqualified, ect ...as in a TDA/Casino tourn ...
 
I don't.

TDA 66: Warnings, Penalties, & Disqualification
Penalty options include: verbal warnings, one or more “missed hands”, one or more “missed rounds”, and disqualification.

I would be fairly shocked if a player in a TDA ruled Tourn , knowingly violated the rule and risked a penalty, to gain an edge to win any pot.
Violations are not tolerated, and such a brazen "in your face" disregard of the tournament rules no doubt could result in a severe penalty, including disqualification.
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Lol, you think they're disqualifying a guy at the final table of a major tournament for turning his hand face-up? Jawohl Mein Herr!!!!
 
You asked for advice, and then insulted those trying to help with a Nazi reference.

So I've been on a semi-hiatus from the forum for a bit after a number of you finally slapped some sense into me and made me realize what a complete asshole I have been for a long time now.

I appreciate that this happened and I'm extremely sorry to anyone that I upset or offended along the way. I've abandoned my old account and I'm using a new account under my real name, as I want to carefully consider what I say and how I say it, rather than just being a complete idiot like I was in the past.

This revelation also helped me in my personal life, as I had often lacked empathy for those closest to me and had been quite selfish. I'm working on this, it's not an overnight fix to undo over a decade of jackassery, but I'm going to try.

Consider this my "My Name is Earl" moment, I guess you could say. My apologies to Tommy for the ugliness I was involved in before. You run a great site and didn't deserve any of it here. And of course my apologies (and thanks) to those who didn't give up and finally got me to see reason and stop being so stubborn and defensive over my actions.

Anthony

114 days. I should have set an over/under.
 
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It's happened once so far, learn from it and act again the same going forward. If you're going to allow players to expose cards and then keep on letting them, just the rule the same way and tell your players to pay more attention. Otherwise, tell players to stop exposing cards. Your game, your rules.
 
I agree on this point. Not so nice to make him the 'bad guy', as he is obviously never folding at this point.


Why does this make a difference when two players are heads up in a pot and the only decission left is for a player to call or fold to an all-in? Will him showing his cards have any further implications for the rest of the tournament?

How do you know he is never folding?? There is a four card straight on the board, either of the last two could have given him a straight. Why didn't he just snap call, instead of asking if he could turn his cards over? I have seen MANY players fold a winning hand in similar situations.

As to your question, yes. The player who shows his card could get a read that he is behind or ahead. That piece of information alone would change the entire game.

Why have rules then? You won't have players very long when they don't know what to expect and someone ends up getting disappointed in a big spot and gets very upset about it.

If that's the case (no rules) just play slapjack for hundos.

The nice thing about RROP is that it's a generally accepted ruleset that you can fall back into - particularly for common games like NLHE where it anticipates most of the things that could go awry in your game.

Anthony had a financial interest in the outcome of the hand, which is why I agree with the Doctor's solution. None of this would not have transpired if the game was being played by RROP.
 
How do you know he is never folding??

Because his opponent just showed a complete bluff with no pair and player #1 has two pair, so conceivably he shouldn't fold, because folding a winner would be viewed as collusion in a casino setting, no?



Anthony had a financial interest in the outcome of the hand, which is why I agree with the Doctor's solution. None of this would not have transpired if the game was being played by RROP.

lol at a financial interest. It was a $20 difference to move up one spot, I guess I can finally get that addition to the cardboard box I'm living in! My interest was doing what was right for the game, and what I should have done is declare player #1 the winner of the hand and not put that decision on the new player which wasn't fair of me.

I'm satisfied with what I should've done and would do in the future, which is to have cards speak in a situation like that (of course, if Player #2 flipped over the winning hand and player #1 hadn't acted yet, he would of course be permitted to fold)
 
Permitted to fold? If there is any uncertainty, I think it should be whether he should be forced to fold or allowed to call.
 
Anthony, the question is if V2 had not turned over his cards showing his bluff, would V1 have called? What would his decision have been if he had been told that he could not expose his cards? Your rule allows other players in the tournament to react to V1's live cards. He may pick up on someone's look of disbelief, shock, etc. that may prompt him to call instead of finding the fold.
 
He may pick up on someone's look of disbelief, shock, etc. that may prompt him to call instead of finding the fold.

Lol. First off, no one is forcing Player 2 to even LOOK at Player 1's cards.

Secondly, Player 1 could verbalize his hand analysis, or even verbalize his hand strength or the exact content of his hand (allowed under WSOP and TDA rules) and then pick up on Player 2's look of disbelief, shock, etc.

Are you really arguing against attempting to get a read off an opponent now? Alright, I'm done, we're going in circles and won't agree. I'm satisfied with how I will proceed in the future and won't be responding to anymore of this insanity.
 
Why not quote my entire post??

Anthony, the question is if V2 had not turned over his cards showing his bluff, would V1 have called? What would his decision have been if he had been told that he could not expose his cards? Your rule allows other players (i.e. not just V1) in the tournament to react to V1's live cards. He may pick up on someone's look of disbelief, shock, etc. that may prompt him to call instead of finding the fold.
 
I agree on this point. Not so nice to make him the 'bad guy', as he is obviously never folding at this point.
How do you know he is never folding??
Because the guy who you quoted, the one you were directly responding to, was referring to the hand as it played out. He said the guy would not fold after knowing, without question, that he had the best hand.

There are quite a few people who are really very good at taking things out of context in an attempt to prove some kind of point. You aren't one of them.
 
Seems I am not as strict with the rules as some of you, but that's fine. I am aware of the WSOP rules with no showing of cards, but in friendly home-games I dont really care about this too much. We are just having fun, right? We obv also have rules to play by, like one-chip call, acting in turn and whatnot, but if some newbie legit puts in one chip (wanting to raise but not saying) we would just ask him what he means to do before the next person acts. (and ofc tell him about the rule, and starting to be more strict if he keeps on making the same mistake. It almost never happens though.) I think angle shooting in spots like this, making the fish call, and then limping in behind with rags to outflop his overpair and felt him is a lot more shady than allowing him to do his intented raise.

In the games I play we are used to showing our hands on the end in cash-games (seems most of you also allow this?), and I dont really see a problem with it in tournaments either. It doesnt happen very often, but it is not a big deal if someone wants to "see what the guys is thinking about" or "join in on the decission". I honestly doubt showing the cards will impact player3 and player4 in this spot. Of course other people are not allowed to discuss the hand while its live. This is a clear no-no.

Just to be clear I also dont have a problem with hosts not allowing to show live cards, Also for cash-games. I do think it makes the game better to show some cards sometimes, but its not a big deal either way. To me the big issue here is the other player not paying attention, rather than the rule itself. (The same thing could easily happen in a cash-game, if the player is not paying attention.)


As for collusion it has not been a problem in the home-games I have been playing, but if you get a lot of different new players every game, I guess it would be more important to take some precautions. I dont think chip-dumping will ever be an issue in a low stakes game wth friends though, but I guess you can never be too careful.....
 
Initially Villain #2 was making a lot of bluffs against Villain #1 and showing them, which has led Villain #1 to turn the tables and not back down, and increase his bluffing and showing frequency. Villain #1 has been getting the best of #2 and it's starting to take its toll.

Initially the manager guy was cool, but you can now see he is losing (most of his larger 25K green chips are gone) and it's affecting him to the point of frustration and tilt.

Villain #2 has led the charge this hand in aggression, with Villain #1 just calling his bets consistently preflop, flop and turn. On the river the IT Engineer Villain #1 is first to act. Villain #2, in what I can only refer to as the poster child for Strong is Weak immediately grabs for all of his chips like he wants to shove them in, and gives a menacing stare over at Villain #1.

Villain #1 opts to check and #2 immediately shoves all-in and starts jammering on and on, attempting to puff himself up in what is obviously a display of strength when he is extremely weak.

Villain #1 ponders what to do and states he believes the other guy is bluffing. The board had a three-card straight on the flop and by the river is 45K67.
 
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As an aside to this, I LOVE the psychological aspects of poker and thus allow that to come into play, even in a tourney setting, so long as it's a heads-up pot without additional opponents involved, and so long as it doesn't involve players colluding with one another.

Villain #1 asks if it's ok to turn over his hand and show Villain #2, and I say it is ok. He flips over K6 for two pair.

Villain #2, not paying attention and on obvious tilt believes Villain #1 has folded face-up, and in slow-motion turns over his AQ bluff.

I immediately say no no no, Villain #1 hasn't acted yet! and Villain #2 realizes he done goofed! and says it's ok, it was his mistake.

Villain #1 starts asking if they can just chop the pot or something, and I tell him no, he has to call or fold. Now I know in a casino setting:

1. you wouldn't be allowed to turn your hand face-up, usually that makes the hand dead (although it was asked and I ruled opposite that for my game)

2. If this situation were to occur in a casino (should the engineer not have his hand declared dead) then the Engineer would have to call because to fold the winning hand would be viewed as collusion

I think I should've just ruled that it's an auto-call because he can't fold the winner, but I did give him the choice of calling or folding. He agonized over it but ultimately made the call and busted the other guy.

The other guy shook my hand and the chip leaders hand, but I missed it and didn't shake the guys hand that had sent him into tilt mode.

Anyway, again I think I should've ruled it's an auto-call there, I guess make myself the "bad guy" if needs be and not put that onto two new players to my game and two novices to poker. How would you guys handle a situation like this?
 
Nothing wrong with table talk once heads-up. It's an important and valuable strategic part of the game. I encourage it.

As far as showing your cards is concerned, this rule is almost never enforced. Players only get mad about this because they think they are supposed to get mad. There is no reason a player can't or shouldn't be allowed to show one or both of his hole cards to his opponent once they are heads up, unless they are colluding and trying to give air to each other in a tournament setting (i.e., if they are friends and don't want to bust each other at a FT).

I show my cards all the time in cash games. I've had players who weren't involved in the hand get mad at me for it, but I've never been penalized or had my hand called dead (and for good reason - no card room wants to deal with the gambling commission, and they'd sure as shit be hearing from them if a floorman every tried to call my hand dead for exposing my cards). I've had one or two ignorant floormen at low stakes card rooms to try warn me about it, but never in real games. This stuff is pretty common at higher stakes. I can't tell you how many times a player says, "I'll show you one card..." or better yet, "I'll show you one if you show me one..."
 
You don't see players turning their cards face up in a tournament during the decision making process, because unlike a cash game where every hand is essentially a new game and the chips are worth their face value, the blinds progress and the game continues until one player has all of the chips. Showing ones cards to gain information could alter the outcome for other players. The player might get a read off of his opponent as to whether he should fold or call. He may even show his cards to see the reaction of other players when trying to make his/her decision.

You have to differentiate between the two games. And no, showing is not the same as telling a player what you have, as Abby pointed out in post #34.

Whatever you do in Florida, please don't go to the beach and dump a bucket of water over a beach ball. I am afraid you might come back here and argue that the world is flat.
 
Whatever you do in Florida, please don't go to the beach and dump a bucket of water over a beach ball. I am afraid you might come back here and argue that the world is flat.

Holy shit - Mojo actually said something relevant and funny. I'm coming around on you.

(Slowly)

(Very Slowly)
 
I turned KK face up on the river on a K554J board in an O8 WSOP Circuit Event in San Diego a few years back. I then folded it face up for just one more bet on the river after I 3bet the guy heads up. This was a limit event too.

The table went nuts, so did the dealer. I had to clarify that I knew what I had, and that my intention was to fold. I explained that I was certain I was beat and that he had quads and that I didn't want to lose even one more bet.

Good times, good times
 
I was pondering this situation a bit more, and I'm curious what those of you that subscribe to the "don't ever expose your hand" rule object to about a player exposing his/her cards heads up. There's one obvious objection to me, which is if you're at the final table (or at least deep in the money of a large tournament) and two players are soft playing each other because they're friends and don't want to bust each other (I mentioned this above, and this one is pretty much always enforced). Obviously, this isn't fair to the other players, but aside from this, I'm wondering what your objections are to a player exposing his/her cards.

Particularly, I'm curious about your objections in a cash game setting once the hand is heads up. Note that I'm not talking about multi-way pots here. I think it goes without saying that you should never intentionally expose your hand in a multi-way pot. I'm primarily a cash game player, and this topic comes up quite a bit when I play since I expose my cards with a fair amount of regularity.
 
Particularly, I'm curious about your objections in a cash game setting once the hand is heads up. Note that I'm not talking about multi-way pots here. I think it goes without saying that you should never intentionally expose your hand in a multi-way pot. I'm primarily a cash game player, and this topic comes up quite a bit when I play since I expose my cards with a fair amount of regularity.

The gist I'm getting is they aren't against it in cash games, but they are in tournaments because exposing your cards could impact other players still in the tournament. Here's why I disagree in the situation from my OP


1. There are two opponents involved in this hand. Player #2 is already all-in. Player #1 is the one who asks first, and then exposes his hand. In poker I believe it's considered against the rules to influence the actions of another player. However, as Player #2 is already all-in, he has no further "actions" he can take, so Player #1 exposing his hand doesn't influence the "actions" available to Player #2 because Player #2 has no "actions" remaining to him

2. They argue that Player #1 exposing his cards could get a reaction from either Player #2 or the other players at the table, and that getting a reaction from your opponent is somehow unethical, unfair, etc. to the other players in the game. Again, this is wrong, because it's already been shown that published tournament rules in a situation like this permit you to mention the "strength or content" of your hand.

Are they trying to argue that a player saying "I have Kings" will not produce a possible reaction from either their opponent in the hand or others at the table? If their argument is that one shouldn't be allowed to obtain a reaction from their opponent (and that seems to be the argument I'm seeing pushed most heavily against me) then they are hypocrites because there are plenty of other actions permitted within the ruleset of most poker tournaments that "could" result in a reaction from their opponent.

These include reaching for your chips, taking out the amount of chips necessary to call and counting them out, stacking them, looking at your opponent intently, discussing what you believe your opponent has, discussing the strength of your own hand, saying you think you have to call, asking your opponent if you fold will they show, etc. All of those things are done everyday in poker tournaments, and all of these things could result in a reaction from their opponent (and I could argue that asking "if I fold will you show" is more likely to result in a verbal response from your opponent, giving you a much better tell, than actually flipping up your hand which isn't likely to get a verbal response from your opponent at all). Obtaining a reaction from your opponent is not illegal under poker rules, influencing their actions is. It seems everyone is trying to outlaw getting a reaction from opponents, and that's just idiotic to me.

Anyway, don't waste any further time with Mojo, no sense in feeding the troll.
 
Given the most commonly-used rules in each game type, I think that a player who sees exposed cards tabled is going to assume that it's either a call (cash game) or a fold (tournament). In general, allowing players to expose their cards creates more potential problems than any potential gain by the practice.
 
Given the most commonly-used rules in each game type, I think that a player who sees exposed cards tabled is going to assume that it's either a call (cash game) or a fold (tournament). In general, allowing players to expose their cards creates more potential problems than any potential gain by the practice.

By that logic should we also prevent a player from saying something like "I think I have to call" or "do you want me to fold?" because the other player may not be paying attention and may only register the words "call" or "fold" and act on hearing that?
 
There have been many cases of players confusing those statements. Not a recommended practice.
 
For the 3rd time...

http://www.pokertda.com/view-poker-tda-rules/

62: No Disclosure

Players must protect other players in the tournament at all times. Therefore players, whether in the hand or not, must not:

  1. Disclose contents of live or folded hands,
  2. Advise or criticize play at any time,
  3. Read a hand that hasn’t been tabled.

That's my objection. The rule states a player must not disclose the contents of a live hand. If they took the time to write the rule, there must be a reason. It really doesn't matter if you don't like the rule, or don't understand the rule - it's the rule. If you'd like, you can make a rule for your home game that makes flushes the highest possible hand, but that's not how most of us would rule it in our games.

How is this still a discussion, and how the F*ck did it suddenly become about a cash game?

There's the rule. You willfully ignore it at your game. I know those that wilfully ignore the rule prohibiting rabbit-hunting. Whatever - it's their game, we're all different. Just accept that if you ignore a commonly accepted rule, that you may have a "crazy" situation arise. This whole thread is moot if you followed the rule.
 
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