“I understand, it's an old, archaic system, and the employers use it as a substitute for paying a fair wage. So to those who say it's a bad system, and therefore I'm not going to tip, you're just a cheap a-hole. If the system were changed, then your food bill would be 15-20% higher anyway, so just realize that and pay your fair share. ”
I tip min 15% when I go out but the idea that people who tip less than 15% are cheap assholes is unfair.
What is a “fair” wage for servers? $30/h? If it was congruent with other countries with similar gdp per capita where tipping isn’t common it would be peanuts. it’s not uncommon for the diners to make less than the wait staff, but they should feel obliged to give them charity?
If, like you said, half the patrons account for 90% of the tips, then if the half who are cheap skates suddenly tipped as others did, the waiters would be making nearly double. Is $50/h high enough? Are manual labourers earning $10/h still being cheap skates if they choose to only donate 10% of their bill?