Agree, let’s put this one down - probably best.Bud, I'm not sure what's got you so upset, I clearly hit a nerve with you.
When we play poker, we have to act on situations with incomplete information. I did and you did. I'm not going to look back at the thread, I have no idea how you were involved but apparently you were? Our interactions were not memorable to me. 12 Angry Men is a movie about acting with incomplete information; racists and scorned fathers and immigrants all see a situation differently, and fill in holes in the information with their own perceptions.
We knew very little about the situation. Saying no, stop begging on here is one thing; the vitriol that came towards him was astounding, you even said above, too far. I never attacked anyone for not donating or crying at the sob story. More evidence came up about VMR and I was one of the first rolling my eyes at the drama. I'm very disappointed in him and I've told him so. My mind was changed based on facts, that's what adults do when new information shows up. I will continue to give the benefit of the doubt to those that say they're struggling. I don't see why not and it makes me happier.
Apparently you were very upset with how I did it, and instead of PMing me you're choosing to continue to post here? I don't know why. I'm done with this, I apologize again for upsetting you and we're done here, good luck with the hashtag lol.
Appreciate the additional perspective you shared above.