Personal Ben Book*** Yee Be Warned!!
So 6 years ago I ended a huge chapter in my life, broke up with the Ex, met Brie and life was amazing... other than folks on social media were not very happy with my "life decisions" so both Brie and I walked away from every form of Social Media like Cold Turkey... just turned it off and never looked back. Of course there were people I cared about but hey "you have my #,call me if you need me" I went from a guy that spent every weekend at kids Bday parties, baby showers, wedding parties... you name it and I was there... to absolutely not one single invite to anything...
We found PCF and you guys all became our friends and family! (Obviously other than direct immediate family). In that loss was a family with 2 daughters that our family had all but adopted, the girls and their parents had become part of our family. Every single holiday including Thanks Giving and Christmas they all celebrated with us.
With our departure from social media years went by and I never heard from Mrs. Allie a young woman I called my sister. She had a little girl that called me uncle Ben and another in the womb and the last time I saw them was 6 years ago at the second baby shower... they had my # and I had theirs... but we faded apart and I just assumed they hated me, never clarifying or even trying to figure it out... it was just easier to live without... but it hurts with the kiddos man.
So this past weekend my cousin at age 28 married his GF of 9 years, I introduced them to each other all those years ago, they now have 3 girls and decided it was time to officially tie the knot. His Bride was life long friends with my "sisters" and it totally slipped my mind until I got to the wedding and young Izzy which was 2 when I last saw her, and the unborn little girl was now 5 years old... I literally melted standing in my shoes, fighting back tears and hating myself for allowing this much time to have escaped me, looking at the 2 most adorable little girls I had ever seen!
Both Allie and Husband Kyle came straight over and gave me a huge hug... all this time lost and they thought I hated them, and vice versa. All over nothing! How freaking stupid!
(Sis Allie, husband Kyle, the girls, Grandpa Mikey right infront of me)
After the wedding the girls ran to me on the dance floor and the youngest just wanted to dance with me... I had never met her before but she knew I was "Uncle Ben" I dance with her on my knees and she literally gave me the biggest and best hug of my life. Her mama caught this in pictures and sent me this yesterday.
That is one Happy Uncle Ben right there! Never again will I not be in their lives. Now I get to spoil the ever living s*#t out of them! Lol
Life is too short amigos, get over your pride if you you have a similar story. This one will have a happy ending, but dang I hate myself for time lost!
Absolutely Beautiful Wedding
Life is full of surprises... so Allie has a sister named Kristina aka Budda, another woman I know as sis. We she done grew up and had a young boy also, his name is Jakson... I have a nephew I enever even knew about! Lol
Is he not just about the most adorable little man ever!!
Anyways the DJ sucked! The smoking Barrel IPA was delicious and I had one of those soul cleansing days that I needed! Ms.
@FordPickup92 was looking absolutely fantastic!!
To say I was happy would be an understatement... I found a piece of me that had been missing for a long time!